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Ladies, Let's reconstruct Love and Sex

Updated: Sep 4, 2021

We’re launching Part Two of our bilingual bicultural Love and Sex empowerment program for Asian women this weekend. The beta version is created and facilitated by me and Yiyao Ding (they/them), LMSW.

Part one of this program started to TALK about love and sex for Asian women. We explored relationship and sexuality values, relationship and sexuality in a context, sex positive and women centered communication, stages of relationship building, attachment theory, Gottman methods, body image issues, diet culture and intuitive eating, body positivity and more.⁠ ⁠

Part two focusing on reconstruct love, sex and bringing people together. We cannot build a relationship and sex positive culture alone ⁠ ⁠

We need allies. REAL allies. We’ll explore ways to validate sexual diversity and deconstruct gender binary system. We’re also going to exam and deconstruct the intersection of Asian race, gender and sexuality in the US, as well as facilitate conversations around decolonizing Asian sexuality, confronting white supremacy and toxic male sexuality. ⁠ ⁠

We’re not definitely NOT your Asian Fetish 🙅🏻‍♀️ 🙅🏻‍♀️ 🙅🏻‍♀️⁠ ⁠

As we exam and decolonize sexuality, we can make room to embrace the new model of health male sexuality and END the war with men. Men are NOT our enemies. We want to be able to love them. And especially for some of us who are attracted to men, we can finally allow us to fully enjoy intimacy, pleasuring and eroticism with our current or future male partner(s) after we end the war with men. ⁠ ⁠

The world is not perfect, but together, we can create a safer, better and sexier future for EVERYONE 🥰⁠ ⁠

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