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Understanding All-or-Nothing Thinking From a DBT Perspective
Have you ever caught yourself thinking, "I shouldn’t have had that cookie today, but since I already ruined my diet, I might as well eat whatever I want for the rest of the week"? Or tell yourself, "my partner said something upsetting to me, we must be incompatible."? If so, you've experienced all-or-nothing thinking. All-or-nothing thinking, also called black-and-white thinking or dichotomous thinking, is one of the Automatic Negative Thoughts (ANTs). It is a tendency to se
Ally Counseling & Therapy Assistant
6 days ago5 min read


Why You Feel Like You Have “Different Versions” of Yourself: Understanding Managers, Firefighters, and Exiles in IFS Therapy
Learn how Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy explains perfectionism, people-pleasing, procrastination, and the inner critic through managers, firefighters, and exiles, especially within Asian American and immigrant experiences.

Avery (YuehChun) Chao
Jun 204 min read


Navigating the High-Pressure World: Finding Peace in Perfectionism
High Achievers: Make Anxiety Your Ally to Thrive In today’s fast-paced world, many of us carry a constant weight of expectations—at work,...

Avery (YuehChun) Chao
Sep 25, 20252 min read


Grievers are allowed to be sexual
Most people associate grievers with asexuality. So when grievers do start to feel sexual, they often instantly start to shame or...

Huilin Lai, LCSW-R, CST
Jan 7, 20232 min read


When meditation and stillness doesn’t work
Meditation has been shown to have a great benefit in reducing stress, anxiety, and focusing in the present. This increases our awareness...

venetacallpani
Aug 13, 20222 min read
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