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Sexuality and Aging: Your Retirement Plan for Intimacy
Successful people often spend decades preparing financially for retirement, but few prepare emotionally or erotically for aging. This article explores sexuality and aging through intimacy, body image, emotional connection, and long-term relationships. It reflects on how older adults often become more sexually alive not because their bodies stop aging, but because shame, performance pressure, and self-judgment loosen their grip over time.

Huilin Lai, LCSW-R, CST
3 days ago4 min read


Grievers are allowed to be sexual
Most people associate grievers with asexuality. So when grievers do start to feel sexual, they often instantly start to shame or...

Huilin Lai, LCSW-R, CST
Jan 7, 20232 min read


What if there is no such a thing as sexual desire disorder?
I get clients asking me everyday, “Is it me?” “Am I abnormal?” “What do I do to increase or decrease my sexual desire?” As I...

Huilin Lai, LCSW-R, CST
Oct 12, 20223 min read


Ladies, Let's reconstruct Love and Sex
We’re launching Part Two of our bilingual bicultural Love and Sex empowerment program for Asian women this weekend. The beta version is...

Huilin Lai, LCSW-R, CST
May 14, 20212 min read


Asian Sexuality Matters
Look, I love my Asian community, we get a lot of good education on our academic future, career future, financial future, relationship...

Huilin Lai, LCSW-R, CST
Mar 6, 20212 min read
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